6 Advice From A Broken Up Engagement - Things To Do Before Engagement

6 Things To Checkout Before Getting Engaged To Avoid Painful Breakup

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Marriage is critical event of everyone's life. And if you are in countries like India, Getting divorce or break up could be worst pain of your life you will never want to face. But engagement is a great opportunity to decide future of your married life. Here are five critical points from my own experience of broken up engagement that you must know and apply before getting engaged to save you from a painful engagement breakup.

1. If it is arranged engagement.. never compromise any feature of your dream.You may get excited when you see somebody beautiful or rich and like it at first sight but take enough time to move forward to engagement. Give yourself enough time to know that person's values, intelligence, attitude, nature and family background. If you make quick paces and fast decisions during this phase, you may have to regret your whole life.

2. Nobody is perfect but you can make him/her perfect by love. Still some features which you can't change are not to compromise. For example, if your fiance/fiancee eats much and still is the same skinnier as ever, you may not live happily with him/her for your full life due to his/her abnormally fat-less body. Generally a girls without curves is non-sexy for men and man with too much fat is non-sexy for a girl.

3. Engagement is intended to experience mutual compatibility and take future decisions so if you are not happy during that time, you should give up and break up it because divorce after marriage is even more painful. Merely live together situation is going to make none of you happier. There must be love as well as attraction between you two for a successful married life. And this is not to be compromised at any cost.

4. Generally you get few months after engagement to decide whether you both are comfortable with each other or not. Take advantage of this time. Get the maximum time you can have to spend with each other. Along with discussing family and other matters, also discuss your future plans.  

5. Know your interests, plus points, leggings, and it may sound crazy but try out even sex for once. This is extremely critical issue for your happier future. Having sex for once will make you both more comfortable with each other and let all things be discussed freely. And if your partner denies sex before marriage, explain him/her why you want to do it. You can always have protection during sex. But the main aim of doing this is checking his/her sexual health and ability.

6. At last, i would advice that no matter what you are, how you look and how you think. If you want a perfect life partner, you should also be perfect. First make yourself worth for what you demand. If you need a beautiful girl, be beautiful yourself. If you need a highly educated boy, be a well-educated girl too. Best partner for you is always the one which is of your level.    

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